I've almost finished it now.
There's a small bit in there as well about a Dog-fighting trip to the Philippines....
About the pain thing the author didn't want to go to a place like "The Lion's Den" (Shamrock MMA) as he disapproved of the "hazing" that goes on there. Having read the book "Inside the Lions Den" sometime back I can see what he means. The book focuses more on "Gameness", to take a beating and carry on or even just to carry on (he talks with a boxer whose opponent died a few weeks later and after that lost his killer instinct for example).
The importance of conditioning comes up time and time again and it was interesting to hear PG Ah Loong discussing this with Master Boy Garcia recently. In the book the author tells a story about how Bruce Lee almost lost a street-fight to a bigger opponent and in the end it was his conditioning that won him through. Definitely gives my "Beer Belly" another prod!
Something else I have taken from the book is that it's better to have a dead-pan expression to relax the face which in turn will relax the body. Makes sense to me. The author also goes on a 10 day mediation retreat in Thailand and that was insightful too.
Good book - one for the "Martial Arts Library" if I had a place to settle for more than just a few years

It will be a "Virtual Library" with ipads and kindles before too long anyway. If only I could afford one!